Friday, July 08, 2005

THE FORGOTTEN FIVE

Oops!


Oops!

This was sent my way by
TEACHER SOL some time ago. I guess I deserve an F for this late reply.

(Deep breath followed by sing-song RECITATION...)

If I could be in one place right now...I would be closer to my oldest son, MAX, who lives in Toronto but travels so much with my ex-husband that it's hard to pinpoint just one place.

If I could give something of myself to my friends...it would be my personal relationship with my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

If I could take some people somewhere...I would bring my kids back to the Philippines so they could meet their family members there.

If I could make one dream come true...I would be a Board-Certified Lactation Consultant and work in the maternity ward with newborn babies, educating their mothers about the importance of BREASTFEEDING.

If I could do real magic...I would send an invisible part of me to be with my kids at all times so I can keep an eye on them, even when we are physically apart.


Here's my contribution to the mix:

I blog because... I would like to record my family's special moments, and although photographs are effective in recording the actual sights, written commentary also helps me relive the sounds, scents and sensations of that particular MEMORY in my mind's eye.

I comment because... something in an article sparks my interest.

I bloghop because... I would like to repay the kindness of those people who take precious time to read what I have to say. (Yes, I DO return visits, although I do not always comment because most of the time, I have a curious baby on my lap who thinks the keyboard is her personal toy.)

I link because... I like having other windows to the world. It's so nice to be able to go to places I've never been, like
SWITZERLAND or NEW ZEALAND, with just one click on a link!

My favorite bloggers are...
RENAISSANCE GIRL and BATJAY, not because I know them personally (Mona being a former blockmate of mine in UP and BatJay my HUSBAND's first cousin), but because they are exceptional writers. Mona's writing reminds me of one of my favorite humorists, Erma Bombeck, and BatJay can make me laugh out loud, just like my other favorite humorist, Dave Barry. Yet both are equally capable of coming out with poignant entries which tug at the heart strings when they're done tickling the funny bone.


So there you have it, my FAMOUS FIVE.

I won't limit myself by just sending this to five people because I am honestly curious about other people's motivations for blogging, commenting, bloghopping and linking.

Therefore, I am sending this out as an open questionnaire to anyone who cares to answer them. You can choose to post your answers in your blog. I only ask that you please let me know if you've replied, either through e-mail (pradamama@peoplepc.com), or by leaving a comment or tag, so that I can read your answers.

Of course, you may also choose to just reply here, by posting a comment.

Hmmm...I wonder how many replies I get on this one?


(PLUGGING: updates in SERENITY and SIGHTINGS and we're off to see "THE LIZARD OF OZ" on "The Long Way Home" to 87 GENTLE STREET.)

Tuesday, July 05, 2005

SPONTANEOUS COMBUSTION

A. SPONTANEOUS:

Reanna and Mommy lounging on a mat

spon-ta'-ne-ous: adjective. Happening or arising without apparent external cause; self-generated. Synonym: impulsive, instinctive. These adjectives mean acting, reacting, or happening without apparent forethought or prompting. (from
DICTIONARY.COM)


Spontaneous.

If I had to choose a word to describe our long Fourth of July weekend, it would be spontaneous.

We didn't really make any special plans. We were expecting my AUNTIE OLIVE to join us from L.A. but she had to cancel at the last minute.

And then the door bell rang on Friday night, and it was my brother-in-law, Simon, who had a surprise for my husband,
LORENZO: their youngest sister, Madel, whom he picked up from their parents' home in Milpitas.

Kuya Simon and Madel with Reanna


Little did we know it then, but that simple chime would determine our plans for the next three days. That and the unmistakeable ring of my husband's cell phone.

Rrring...(actually a voice recording of Troy when he was two years old)...
It is Simon on the other line. After the initial pleasantries are dispensed with, the brothers get down to business...

LORENZO: Ano'ng plano nyo? (What are your plans?)
SIMON: Wala. (None.)
LORENZO: Daan na lang kayo dito. (Just come over then.)

My husband and his brother had the same conversation on Saturday and Sunday morning, so you could expect the Cast of Characters to be pretty much unchanged for both days. We did, however, switch roles where it was most important, food preparation.

On Saturday, for instance, Simon was the designated head chef, responsible for barbecuing steaks, short ribs, and the most succulent ribs I've had in a long time. I was sous-chef, cooking rice, steaming corn, microwaving mixed vegetables and boiling balut on the side.

I was promoted to head chef on Sunday, proudly producing a turbo-roasted lechon which was crispy on the outside and fork-tender on the inside. I also boiled some more corn to while away the time as Lorenzo and Simon scoured the streets for liver sauce, finally scoring a couple of half-empty bottles of Mang Tomas in Simon's fridge.



And then we got down to the serious business of eating.

Simon carves my turbo-broiled lechon


The rest of the time was spent swimming, singing karaoke, and watching martial arts movies as Madel and I lined up and eagerly devoured "The House of Flying Daggers", "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" and "Hero".


We also made last-minute plans for a Fourth of July picnic in historic
KNIGHTS FERRY, CA.





Knights Ferry is located on the banks of the Stanislaus River. It houses the longest covered bridge in California, built in 1864. It also happens to be one of our favorite picnic and fishing spots, less than an hour away from home.

Knights Ferry covered bridge, built in 1863.


And so, on Monday morning, the three Sereno siblings, Madel, her kuyas, Simon and Lorenzo, together with their families, motored over to the picturesque town, their vehicles laden with food and picnic gear.

We found a table in the perfect location, right by the river. The men fired up the grill while the rest of us settled in.

The Brothers Sereno fire up the grill


Cast of Characters: For this special occasion, the main parts went to the men, Simon and Lorenzo, who alternated in the role of head chef, depending on who had possession of the tongs. Simon's wife, Baby, was sous-chef, bringing out the chips and salsa and chopping up the salad, while I was content in the role of dessert chef, unveiling the creation I made together with my sous-chef, Madel, the day before.




After a delicious repast of steak, polish sausages, roasted corn, salad, and of course, my leche flan, the men set off to find a good fishing spot while the ladies and kids lounged in the shade.

women and children lounging in the shade


Lance, Troy and Simon's son, Chivas soon found themselves drawn to the water too. After seeing a deer on the opposite bank and yelling "Hi Bambi" at it, it wasn't long before my boys were in the Stanislaus River themselves. Lance even swam in the cold water, under his Daddy's watchful gaze. You could imagine my surprise when I saw my two wet, bedraggled boys walking towards me from the river's edge.

playing in the river shallows a deer in the opposite bank Lance and Troy inspect the first crawdad they caught a refreshing drink after their dip in the river


Good thing Daddy had them cleaned and dressed in no time, since they were going fishing next. Reanna was fascinated with Troy's sun gear, but her kuya refused to relinquish his fishing hat.





I followed the boys, who joined their Daddy, Chivas and Uncle Simon in their favorite fishing spot, where they caught a big bucketful of crawdads the last time we went there. And when the boys got bored, I invited them to explore the covered bridge with Reanna and me. We took pictures of the structure's interior and exterior, as well as the spectacular views, as seen from the inside.

fishing for crawdads on the sandy beach by the river's edge posing before entering the bridge Lance and Troy peek out of the side to see the spectacular view posing on the other side of the bridge


Aside from the bridge, we also visited the ruins of the old mill beside it and the mill house across the street. Lance had fun pointing out all the memorial markers, which he read out loud, with Mom's occasional help.

view OF the interior view FROM the interior taking a rest in the middle Lance and Troy with the old mill in the background
the mill house across the road posing in the mill house porch other side My boys on their rocky perch


By then it was getting late, and we knew it wouldn't be long before it was time to go. We wanted to head back to Modesto before dusk so we could catch the fireworks display after sunset. The other adults packed up our picnic gear before Lorenzo set out to look for us. He finally caught up with us at the mill house and we were able to take this windblown family picture before we left.

Family picture, Knights Ferry, CA July 4, 2005

Modesto. Fireworks. Here we come!



B. COMBUSTION

photo taken by Julia Weeks, The Modesto Bee
(photo taken by Julia Weeks, MODBEE.COM)


com-bus'-tion: noun. A chemical change, especially oxidation, accompanied by the production of heat and light. (from
DICTIONARY.COM)


Combustion.

That was just what we were there to see.

The atmosphere at John Thurman field in Modesto was festive as people waited for the fireworks display coming from the stadium. This is where Triple A baseball team the Modesto A's holds their home games, usually capped with spectacular fireworks displays when they win.

We found the perfect parking spot, just beside the entrance to the stadium, and proceeded to unpack our vehicles once more. And then we walked just a short distance on the grass to choose a spot with a full view of the stadium, and of the skies above it.





It wasn't long before we were all set-up again. We were hungry and couldn't wait to tuck into our food, left over from the picnic that afternoon. I never knew nachos topped with steak and salsa could taste so good. It was a little tricky eating my leftover leche flan in the dark, but I heard no one complaining!


our picnic in the dark


And when the fireworks came, they were spectacular. The display was over much too soon, I thought, and I really wanted to incite my neighbors to stomp their feet and yell "Encore!", but since everyone else was packing up in a mad dash to leave, I figured it was futile.

A quick glance behind me explained the mass exodus. People were trying to avoid the huge traffic jam which usually follows events like these. Unfortunately, everyone else had the same bright idea.

Good thing we were parked in the perfect spot. The police put barricades a few meters behind us, and all the cars behind the barricades had to turn left. We, on the other hand, were the owners of the last two vehicles on the deserted street beyond the barricade, so we were able to pack our belongings at leisure.

And when we were ready to leave, the policeman directing traffic in front of us actually stopped the long line of cars going the other way, in order to let us through.

Boy, did we feel special! It was the perfect end to a glorious day.

A picnic in the park capped by a picnic in the dark...

And the best Fourth of July I've ever experienced by far.


(PLUGGING: Knights Ferry orbs caught on camera in SIGHTINGS, and "Summer Love", Part 1 of a double entry about my childhood summers in ILIGAN on "The Long Way Home" to 87 GENTLE STREET.)

Thursday, June 30, 2005

THE WEEKEND IN FOUR SYLLABLES, Part 2

6:50 PM, and still 104 in my backyard


Forget four syllables.

The picture above was taken in my back yard shortly before seven in the evening. Notice how the needle is still pointing to 104 degrees. I could feel the heat assault me the minute I stepped out of our back door.

Based on this, I am predicting this coming weekend to be all of three letters.

H-O-T.

My
AUNTIE OLIVE might also be visiting us from L.A. so in all probability, it will be W-E-T too, just like Lance's kindergarten GRADUATION weekend this past week.

(Okay, so we're back to four syllables again...)



SATURDAY: Ce-le-bra'-tion

Moms in the shade


A small group of mothers huddled in the shade, watching their kids migrate from the pool to the spa and back again with eagle eyes, barely grazing on the food in front of them.

It was the day of Lance's graduation swimming party/pot luck, and our backyard paid host to a bunch of giggling kids, aged 3 to 5.

Every once in a while, one would resurface dripping all over the deck, asking for chips or soda, but these occurences came few and far between. The kids obviously arrived meaning business that day. They were there to SWIM, Mom, not EAT!

When I say "swim", I mean the word loosely here, since Lance was the only one who knew how to swim among the group. But that didn't stop the others from having fun anyway. Armed with kickboards, goggles, snorkels and floaties, the gaggle of kids took over my backyard and held it hostage for the next few hours.

Fun in the Shade Fun in the sun The Wet N Wild Bunch Nathalie and Lance


Lance and his friend Nathalie were inseperable the whole afternoon, since Nathalie was the only kid brave enough to tackle the big pool along with Lance. All the other little kids stayed in the spa, where it was warmer and shallower.

Lance and Nathalie have been classmates since preschool. He's told me she was his "GIRL FRIEND" before, but recently he's expressed interest in another classmate, telling me she was the "prettiest" in his class. I think Nathalie won back his affection that afternoon though. This picture on the left captures for posterity the very first time I've ever seen my son with his arm around a girl his age.

But eventually, hunger took over, and it was "Every man for himself" again. And then the kids took one last long dip in the water before it was time to get dressed and go home.

We took one last picture of the remaining stragglers before my back yard was completely empty once more.

All dressed up and ready to go

It was a nice, simple celebration for the kids' graduation, just like
LAST YEAR. And I can't wait to do it again a year from now.

When Troy graduates from preschool.



SUNDAY: Sa-tu-ra'-tion

Yesterday, the girls outnumbered the boys in my back yard.

Well, today it was the boys' turn to rule.

while Chivas and Chris lounged by the spa

Troy frolicked in the spa while while
CHRIS and my nephew, Chivas, lounged a few feet away. My other stepson, Joey, was busy doing laps in the pool with Lance.

Troy eventually joined his other kuyas in doing laps. with his Kuya Joey pushing him forward while Lance rode on Kuya Joey's back.

Troy, King of the Spa Joey and Lance resting between laps Troy in the big pool Lance, Joey and Troy

After doing a few laps like this with his little brothers, it wasn't long before Joey's muscles were pumped. Chris mirrored his brother's most muscular pose too, adding a side chest pose besides. Joey is just 17 and Chris 15, but their interest in bodybuilding started early as both boys have been trying to emulate their Dad since they were young. Indeed, LORENZO started training the two at the tender age of 12.




It was wonderful to see the boys in their element once more, reclaiming their turf after the brief show of girl power the day before. But their reign was short-lived, and limited to the great outdoors.

Because once they were back inside, it was evident who was boss again.

Princess Reanna and her Kuya Joey

(We may be outnumbered 5 to 2, Reanna and I, but with my little princess on my side, I guess it's safe to say that in our house...)

Girls rule!

Even DADDY says so!

Daddy and his little princess


(PLUGGING: Reminiscences of "Summer Love" lost on "The Long Way Home" to 87 GENTLE STREET. Also check out LORENZO's update in SERENITY, and the new BLOGS page of the Modesto Bee ONLINE.)